A few years ago, a client came to me with a specific goal:
“Help me become a serious entrepreneur. I need systems, spreadsheets, structure. I’m tired of feeling like my success is a fluke.”
She’d been earning consistent 10K months for two years…
And still, it didn’t feel real. It felt like it could all disappear.
She’d taken marketing programs. Went through many business consultations. She knew what to do.
But she still felt out of control. Unanchored. Anxious.
The issue wasn’t discipline.
It wasn’t a strategy problem.
It was a desire problem.
So we stopped talking systems and started talking soul.
We explored what she really wanted—outside of business, beyond “shoulds,” deeper than the pressure to prove herself.
And you know what happened?
She had her biggest month ever. $22K.
No launch plan. No push. Just alignment.
Time went by. Standing strong on her real desires outside of business, her own company felt like a burden. Again—caught between “what I should do” and “what I want" now inside her business process.
We started working again.
“I finally feel inspired again. I’m launching a new course with no expectations… and oh wow! I haven’t had this much response in forever. I feel strong and empowered. Working with you is always magic.”
The truth?
Spreadsheets are useful for measuring results.
But they can’t give you a reason to show up.
You don’t need more discipline.
You need more desire—the kind that wakes you up with ideas, not anxiety.
The kind that doesn’t need accountability because it’s already pulling you forward.
If you’ve been trying to force yourself into consistency, maybe it’s time to stop pushing—and start listening.
What do you really want?
Let’s tap into that. That’s where your mental energy lives.
Want help finding the spark behind your strategy? That’s what we do inside Energy First.
🌀 Three months of unshakable momentum—powered by the part of you that wants to show up.
Let’s talk if you’re curious. 💬
