“How much do you want?”
“At least 8K.”
“Deal.”
I got exactly what I asked for.
Not a penny more.
And you know what? It stung.
Because I didn’t ask for what I really wanted.
And later, I was left with this voice in my head whispering:
“Come on… it was so easy. Why didn’t you ask for what you actually wanted?”
That voice doesn’t lie.
It just reflects something deeper:
We keep cutting ourselves short.
And the world keeps giving us exactly what we said we wanted.
Half, maybe. And then we wonder why it doesn’t feel satisfying.
And the “giver” is confused too.
“But… she got what she asked for. Why isn’t she happy?”
Here’s the truth:
We censor ourselves before the world ever gets a chance to.
We downsize our desires before the pitch, before the launch, before the ask.
All because we’re trying to protect ourselves from what might happen next.
We do it because:
- We’ve been conditioned to be “modest”
- We’re afraid of being too much
- We worry about rejection, or even worse… silence
- We’re scared we won’t be able to handle the emotions that come with a bold ask
And all of that?
It’s draining. It costs you energy. So much energy.
Because it creates a civil war inside you—between the version of you who knows what she wants…
And the version trying to shrink herself to avoid discomfort.
But here’s what I know:
When your energy is high—like, truly high—you stop second guessing.
You stop censoring.
You take bold action.
You pitch. You launch. You ask. You receive.
That’s what I help my clients do.
I don’t just give them a strategy.
I coach them into the energy required to act on it—especially in the moments when it matters most.
So let me ask you:
✨ What’s the thing you’ve been hesitating to do, even though you know it would change your life?
(You know the one. You just felt it in your gut.)
Now ask yourself this:
🔥 What would become possible if your energy was so high, nothing could stop you from doing it this week?
Not fear. Not doubt. Not low motivation.
Let’s get you there.
Book a free 30-minute call with me. We’ll craft a custom energy plan so you have the confidence and stamina to finally follow through.
👉 [Grab a call with me here]
It’s time to stop playing small.
Ask for what you actually want.
And get the energy to go after it.
You’re ready.
—
With fire,
Olena Sadoma
